Guys! Perform Better in Bed ; Here are Ways to Get Rid of Sexual Anxiety

Sex is a big deal, and it’s completely normal to have some anxiety when it comes to sex. However, some men have so much anxiety, they turn into emotional fools at the very thought of having sex. 

Unlock the full guide library:
• All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here 
• Men’s 20 sex Guides here 
• Women’s 8 sex Guides here 
• Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily).

1. Lower Your Expectations

The most important thing to do is to lower your expectations. I know this seems like “woo woo” nonsense advice, but it’s true.

Why do you have to have an eight-inch cock, that can last 2 hours, and ejaculate a gallon-sized cum shot? There’s no reason that you have to be a sex god.

Women love sex. It’s a fact.

And you can bet that if you’re in a relationship, she loves having sex with you, because of your intimate bond. She doesn’t really care how good (or bad) the sex is. She’s happy to be there with you. 

Slow Sex; The Art of Sexually Gratifying Her

2. Become Your Own Hype-Man

To get over your sexual anxiety, I want you to talk yourself up.

This is called, “Positive Affirmations,” by gurus such as Tony Robbins.

This technique seems goofy, but it works. When you talk about yourself in a positive manner, your words will transform themselves into reality.

This can be applied to all areas of your life, including sex.

To do this, look in the mirror and say some of these lines:

“I am a sex god.”

“I am an amazing lover.”

“My woman loves having sex with me.”

“I am in control of my orgasm.”

Say these over and over for ten minutes or so, every day, and over time, your confidence will increase.

You can also do this by talking during sex. Talk dirty, but in a fashion that improves your swagger.

“You love my cock, don’t you?”

“You need my sex.”

“You crave my cock.”

Say this kind of stuff to your girl, and it’ll turn her on and turn you into an animal. 

Alpha Male Style; Assertively Sexually Satisfying Her in Bed

 
VIEW MORE DETAILS & INSIDE BOOK PAGES here

3. Have More Sex

When you worry about something (anything, really), it’s probably because you don’t have much experience doing said activity.

A common example is public speaking. Everyone fears public speaking because it’s a scary thing to do…and we never do it.

To become a better public speaker, you practice public speaking.

To become a better lover…have more sex!

I don’t know how much experience you have, but whether you’re young or old…having more sex will improve your sexual confidence.

Especially if you’re in a new relationship, having sex might seem like a weird thing to do. It takes getting used to. This is a new person, and you want to make sure they like you.

So…have more sex! When you have more sex, you’ll learn what turns her on, what makes her wet, and what makes her scream in pleasure. 

That’s how you get rid of sexual anxiety.

I’m gonna let you in on one of my secrets…having a second round of sex is the key to to your success

Oftentimes, the first round is…disappointing. Most likely you cum early, or your girl isn’t really into it.

In that case,  wait to have another round of sex. In the second round, you always last longer, and since your girl is sufficiently turned on, the sex is wild.

Then, the next time you have anxiety, think back to that second round. Remind yourself of when you’ve rocked her world. If it’s possible once, you can do it again. 

If you can’t have two rounds of sex because your refractory period is long, here’s how to shorten it.

Foreplay Done Right; Getting Her Horny & Bothered

 
VIEW MORE DETAILS & INSIDE BOOK PAGES here

4. Focus On Foreplay

Lastly, remove your sexual anxiety by taking the time to do more foreplay. 

This accomplishes a few things.

First of all, you’ll relax. Foreplay is relaxing, almost meditative, and spending time kissing, holding, and playing with your partner will build your connection with her. 

Then, when sex begins, you’ll have less anxiety.

Remove any expectations from your mind, and focus on the foreplay. Pay attention to her body, her warmth, and her beauty. This will distract you from your anxiety.

Secondly, extended foreplay will make her orgasm…especially if you know how to finger her. 

Making a woman orgasm is one of the most powerful tools you have as a man. It can turn women into a mushy mess of emotions, overwhelmed by happiness hormones, and pleasure.

Make her orgasm, and she won’t care how good (or bad) the sex is. She’ll be plenty satisfied.

 Morning Stretches; Types n Methods of Penis Stimulation, Alone & or With a Partner

Penises really don't get the love they deserve. I mean that on every level, from universal to personal, meaning the penis as a category, and the penis that you (or your partner) has in their pants right now. Most people relate to the penis as a tool… just an implement designed to get a job done. Usually, that job is letting off steam through masturbation, or giving pleasure to another person through intercourse.

This guide is a vital step in the process of changing your relationship to your (or your partner’s) penis from one of entitlement and expectation to one of appreciation and gratitude.

Unlock the full guide library:
• All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here 
• Men’s 20 sex Guides here 
• Women’s 8 sex Guides here 
• Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily).

Trending!

Ultimate Sexual Stamina Program | The Blueprint to Mastering Male Ejaculation Control

Image
  This program is designed to help men overcome sexual dysfunctions and regain their sexual confidence. It offers strategies and techniques to re-train your mind and body in order to have longer-lasting sex, while increasing your partner’s pleasure. Everything is explained here in clear, concise and easy-to-understand instructions. The insights, tools and techniques in this program have been rigorously tried, tested and proven effective by thousands of other men who are now enjoying lovemaking that lasts so much longer than before. This will also give you some instant “firepower” that you can use tonight! Reveled are the tried-and-tested tactics you can use right away to put up a respectable performance in bed, and send her into a sexual frenzy! 🙂 READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB thru PATREON OR Download both PDF & EPUB thru KO-FI OR Download both PDF & EPUB thru GUMROAD OR Download only PDF Thru LULU OR Scroll DOWN to check Inside Book Pages Screenshots ...
Read more

Delayed Ejaculation? Using the Trigger Method to Cum Quickly

Image
  This method is for training to cum faster. The method is simple, start with level one as you move up to level 6- the highest point of the training and by that time you are pretty much a premature ejaculator. The method does not need to be this linear. You can skip straight from level one to a level you want. Once you understand the method, you can actually train yourself to have any kind of fetish if you want. The uses of this method are endless. However, do be careful. This training is stronger than you think and you may find yourself down a rabbit hole of kink you never thought possible WARNING: For most people the results are not permanent.. However, for some, they may struggle to regain stamina. Remember it is much easier to lose stamina than it is to gain it!  READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB thru KO-FI OR Scroll DOWN to check Inside Book Pages Screenshots OR Download it together with the full library:  All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here ...
Read more

The Real Reasons Guys Love Doggy Style So Much

Image
It's no secret that guys always want to do it doggy style. Have you ever had sex with a guy? He's probably either flipped you over, asked you to flip over, or awkwardly attempted to flip you over while you try to manage your limbs. But why? Why do guys feel so compelled to go through all that when vanilla missionary is perfectly serviceable? Unlock the full guide library: •   All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here   •  Men’s 20 sex Guides here   •  Women’s 8 sex Guides here   •  Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily) . It's simple: Guys see it as the perfect position. If a guy were making a doggy style pros and cons list, the cons column would be blank. It's good for guys' backs (maybe). It's relatively safe. There are a ton of subtle, yet important, variations that can be employed. But most importantly, it's just plain and simple sex, no accouterments. Sex is complicated and not always pretty. There's sweating, awkward grunting, heavy breathing, s...
Read more

Creative ways to ask to kiss (or be kissed by) someone even if you are shy

Image
  Overcoming First Kiss Anxiety You might be haunted by the thought of ruining the date or worse, being greeted by a slap. But remember, women understand why you’re on a date together. They know you’re both there to explore whether or not you have an intimate sexual connection. So, they won’t be surprised or even angry when you go for the kiss, even if they’re not ready. They only feel that way if you go for a kiss, they tell you they aren’t ready, and then you ignore their boundaries. But fear not! We’ll address respecting boundaries later in this article. In fact, it’s generally better to go for a kiss even if you don’t get it. Because it shows a woman that: You’re confident and willing to express your romantic intentions. That is always going to be attractive to a woman. You can respect her boundaries. This builds trust and makes her think, “Well…maybe next time he goes for it, I’ll be ready.” Finally, stop stressing yourself out about achieving the perfect kis...
Read more

How To Take A Big Cock (My Big Dick Warm-Up Guide)

Image
Getting yourself warmed up and ready to take something huge inside of you isn’t as easy as it may seem. It’s really important to make sure you’re ready ‘down there’, lots of foreplay, lubrication, and stretching is a must. Otherwise, you run the risk of injury, discomfort, and pain. I am here, Jess, your friend, the queen of size play to share with you the slut girl secrets to taking a big cock or sex toy, so listen up and take note. Unlock the full guide library: •   All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here   •  Men’s 20 sex Guides here   •  Women’s 8 sex Guides here   •  Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily) . The Truth About Taking Big Cock I’m a size queen and I love the feeling of being stretched out, however, that doesn’t mean I can take a big cock without warming up and every time I have, it’s not been a good experience, usually quite uncomfortable and never as satisfying as when I take a small amount of time to warm myself up. I decided to w...
Read more

I am not a Starfish: A Female Step by Step Guide to Actively Participate During Sex

Image
Finally here are the simplified steps to enchant and surprise your man in bed, completely driving him wild. I am going to teach you exactly how to talk dirty to your man so that you can build sexual tension, keep him deeply attracted to you. Remember dependence on male thrusting alone to reach the heights of erotic glory is like trying to win a foot race on one leg. This guide will show you how the penis can be fondled, caressed, griped, massaged, milked, licked, inundated and rippled as a whole or in sections using only the vagina READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB here OR Scroll down to check Inside Book Pages Screenshots OR Unlock the full guide library:  All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here  •  Men’s 20 sex Guides here  •  Women’s 8 sex Guides here  •  Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily) . READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB  Was $12   NOW $9 here OR Scroll UP to check Inside Book Pages Screenshots ...
Read more

365 Sex Moves; Positions for Having Sex a New Way Everyday

Image
  Get ready for the best year of your life! 365 Sex Moves offers couples hot and exciting positions for every day of the year. Filled with stunning photography and short technique descriptions that get right to the point, this book allows you to simply pick-up-and-play and do the position shown.  Whether you’re interested in trying something just a little different or are ready for an advanced acrobatic position, 365 Sex Moves has it all. With this sexy little guide, you’ll never know what the day—or night—will bring. READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB here OR Scroll down to check Inside Book Pages Screenshots OR Unlock the full guide library:  All 50 sex Guides (PDF & EPUB) here • Men’s 20 sex Guides here • Women’s 8 sex Guides here • Free Sex Comics (PDFs) here (added daily) .   READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB Was $15.99 NOW $10 here OR Scroll UP to check Inside Book Pages Screenshots OR Unlock the full guide lib...
Read more

Alpha Male Style; Assertively Sexually Satisfying Her in Bed

Image
  This book will show how to do that which women want in bed. It's a fact that more and more women long to be sexually dominated. They want alpha males, assertive and strong, taking charge of their nocturnal activities. The thing that really throws a lot of guys for a loop is that, a lot of times she wants to be “bent over and fucked hard”, without the tenderness, extended foreplay, or romance. Most men don’t sense those times when she wants to bypass “making love” and get straight to “fucking.” But, just because she wants you to be more assertive in the bedroom does not mean she thinks you’re a girly-man; nor does it mean she wants you to beat her. This book has absolutely nothing to do with how you relate to each other on a day-to-day basis. This is a guide to assertively please your woman in bed. Outside of bed she may want to be treated with tenderness though! READING OPTIONS Download both PDF & EPUB thru PATREON OR Download both PDF & EPUB thru KO-FI OR Download both ...
Read more

The Situationship Trap: 19 Texts That Force Clarity (Without Looking Desperate)

Image
Situationships are attractive for a reason. They promise the best of both worlds: intimacy, sex, companionship, and freedom without the pressure of labels. For a while, it can feel ideal. But the same ambiguity that makes situationships exciting also makes them stressful. When expectations are unclear, people start overthinking every text, every canceled plan, and every shift in attention. Research from dating platforms suggests a large portion of people in undefined relationships worry about getting hurt. The real issue is rarely the situationship itself. The real problem is avoiding direct communication. Clarity removes anxiety. And the fastest way to get clarity is to say what you actually mean. Below are 19 simple texts that open honest conversations and help you steer a situationship in the direction you want. When They Cancel Plans (Especially If It’s Becoming a Pattern) If someone repeatedly cancels last minute, ignoring it only reinforces the behavior. A calm but direct m...
Read more